No one can say this better than my friend Erin http://skiingthroughlife.wordpress.com/ please read what she has to say on this issue...her words put mine to shame. But, I can say let's try this let's stop the misuse of the word. Take the pledge! http://www.r-word.org/Default.aspx
How "retardation" went from a clinical description to a word of derision
When they were originally introduced, the terms “mental retardation” or “mentally retarded” were medical terms with a specifically clinical connotation; however, the pejorative forms, “retard” and “retarded” have been used widely in today’s society to degrade and insult people with intellectual disabilities. Additionally, when “retard” and “retarded” are used as synonyms for “dumb” or “stupid” by people without disabilities, it only reinforces painful stereotypes of people with intellectual disabilities being less valued members of humanity. -r-word.org
The "R" word has made me cringe for years. I too misused it many times when I was younger but after realizing how ugly it is and how much it can hurt I haven't in years. Surprisingly I've taken education classes where they still use the term! Even the teacher apologized for having to teach it. Although in a Disabilities in Film class that I'm currently taking we've been taught a much better umbrella term that doesn't sting so bad...ID or intellectual disorder. My teacher is a Speech Pathologist working specifically with children who have Down Syndrome, Autism and many other ID's. It's a newer term that's being used specifically to not offend anyone. So glad you posted this!
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